Saturday, June 26, 2010

Annoying Habits

I’ve come to the conclusion that there are some annoying habits that really seem to get on my nerves…so I figure I better just vent here so I don’t completely blow a gasket and rip someone’s head off. Man, see how useful my blog is…provides me with an outlet to go nuts…without causing injury to stupid people around the world.

Excessive Talking - Why do people fall into the trap of droning incessant chatter? Because there are people in this world who will talk and talk and talk and then never stop. Why do people do that? If you have something to say, fine, then say it. And better yet, say what you have to say and then let someone else talk. Other than that, silence can be golden. Because, sometimes, there is just no reason to talk...and that’s perfectly ok. But when you open your mouth and just talk for the sake of talking…don’t be surprised if people start rolling their eyes at you and nod along just to get you to shut your mouth. Trust me, if you've been talking for more than five minutes straight, what you have to say is no longer interesting.

Passive Aggression - There’s no reason to ever be passive aggressive. Over the years, you just realize that it’s much easier to just say what you want to say…and be done with it. Say what’s on your mind. If you have something to say (or, in this case, ask)…just spit it out. Don’t beat around the bush or hint at what you want…just say it, get it out into the open and leave it up for discussion. What do you have to be afraid of? It saves a lot of time and just makes things easier to deal with. I don't know what the big deal is. I hate having to try to infer or put together the puzzle to figure out what you're really talking (or asking) about. It's a waste of my time and energy. So if you have something to say, just say it.

Indecisiveness - There is nothing more annoying than someone who can’t make a freakin’ decision. Ugh. It’s really not that hard. It doesn’t even need to be the right decision…it just needs to be a decision. I mean, I know there are times when you really don’t care and/or have a preference about things. But when a decision has to be made….and that responsibility is placed on you…make a goddamn decision already. Indecisiveness benefits no one.

Fake People - Don't be fake. Fake people are the worst. They are people who have no shame. They tell you what you want to hear and can look you in the eye and let a lie roll off their tongue without a second thought. Trust me, there is no good that can come from being around a fake person. I’d rather be known for being blunt and honest versus being fake. And I know that to some people…that’s called being a bitch...and you know what...if that means not being fake, then I’m all for it.

Hmm…ok that’s it…I do feel better.

Archives:    January 2005    February 2005    March 2005    April 2005    May 2005    June 2005    July 2005    August 2005    September 2005    October 2005    November 2005    December 2005    January 2006    February 2006    March 2006    April 2006    May 2006    June 2006    July 2006    August 2006    September 2006    October 2006    November 2006    December 2006    January 2007    February 2007    March 2007    April 2007    May 2007    July 2007    August 2007    September 2007    October 2007    November 2007    January 2008    February 2008    March 2008    April 2008    May 2008    June 2008    July 2008    August 2008    September 2008    October 2008    November 2008    December 2008    January 2009    February 2009    March 2009    April 2009    May 2009    June 2009    July 2009    August 2009    September 2009    October 2009    November 2009    December 2009    January 2010    February 2010    March 2010    April 2010    May 2010    June 2010    July 2010    August 2010    September 2010    October 2010    November 2010    December 2010    January 2011    February 2011    March 2011    April 2011    May 2011    June 2011    July 2011    August 2011    September 2011    October 2011    November 2011    December 2011    January 2012    February 2012    March 2012    April 2012    May 2012    June 2012    July 2012    August 2012    September 2012    October 2012    November 2012    December 2012    January 2013    February 2013    March 2013    April 2013    May 2013    June 2013    July 2013    August 2013    September 2013    October 2013    November 2013    December 2013    January 2014    February 2014    March 2014    April 2014    May 2014    June 2014