Annoying Habits
Excessive Talking - Why do people fall into the trap of droning incessant chatter? Because there are people in this world who will talk and talk and talk and then never stop. Why do people do that? If you have something to say, fine, then say it. And better yet, say what you have to say and then let someone else talk. Other than that, silence can be golden. Because, sometimes, there is just no reason to talk...and that’s perfectly ok. But when you open your mouth and just talk for the sake of talking…don’t be surprised if people start rolling their eyes at you and nod along just to get you to shut your mouth. Trust me, if you've been talking for more than five minutes straight, what you have to say is no longer interesting.
Passive Aggression - There’s no reason to ever be passive aggressive. Over the years, you just realize that it’s much easier to just say what you want to say…and be done with it. Say what’s on your mind. If you have something to say (or, in this case, ask)…just spit it out. Don’t beat around the bush or hint at what you want…just say it, get it out into the open and leave it up for discussion. What do you have to be afraid of? It saves a lot of time and just makes things easier to deal with. I don't know what the big deal is. I hate having to try to infer or put together the puzzle to figure out what you're really talking (or asking) about. It's a waste of my time and energy. So if you have something to say, just say it.
Indecisiveness - There is nothing more annoying than someone who can’t make a freakin’ decision. Ugh. It’s really not that hard. It doesn’t even need to be the right decision…it just needs to be a decision. I mean, I know there are times when you really don’t care and/or have a preference about things. But when a decision has to be made….and that responsibility is placed on you…make a goddamn decision already. Indecisiveness benefits no one.
Fake People - Don't be fake. Fake people are the worst. They are people who have no shame. They tell you what you want to hear and can look you in the eye and let a lie roll off their tongue without a second thought. Trust me, there is no good that can come from being around a fake person. I’d rather be known for being blunt and honest versus being fake. And I know that to some people…that’s called being a bitch...and you know what...if that means not being fake, then I’m all for it.
Hmm…ok that’s it…I do feel better.
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